This article just got to me,please read and criticize carefully.
She is just 24years old,Read her story!
Am a married woman,got married 2yrs ago.i was working with an IT Firm wen i got married.my husband lives in Europe.Our marriage was going well until we agreed i quit my job cos of my visa processing to join him and then learn a handiwork either to sew or braid.i moved back to my parents house last year and since then,my husband has changed from good to worse.anytime i ask him for money for my upkeep,he tells me he doesn't have, even as i am pregnant.NB: he used to send me enough money wen i was working,but now,the story is exactly the opposite.
I've been wondering why he changed,is it because i moved in with my parents or because i stopped working?And my parents are not rich,they are struggling to survive,so i keep wondering why he should just quit taking care of his pregnant wife.if i wasn't pregnant,i wouldn't mind but i am pregnant and almost due(our 1st baby).
Right now,am so frustrated that most times i cry myself to sleep,I've thought of ways to make things better for me,but no one would employ an almost due pregnant woman.
Right now,i have made up my mind to get a boyfriend for myself once i deliver my baby,because I've got to make ends meet,I've got my struggling parents to take care of,my siblings are still in school,and a baby on the way,i cant just fold my hands and watch us suffer.My parents are trying and they cant continue taking care of me(financially and otherwise) now that am married.
She is just 24years old,Read her story!
Am a married woman,got married 2yrs ago.i was working with an IT Firm wen i got married.my husband lives in Europe.Our marriage was going well until we agreed i quit my job cos of my visa processing to join him and then learn a handiwork either to sew or braid.i moved back to my parents house last year and since then,my husband has changed from good to worse.anytime i ask him for money for my upkeep,he tells me he doesn't have, even as i am pregnant.NB: he used to send me enough money wen i was working,but now,the story is exactly the opposite.
I've been wondering why he changed,is it because i moved in with my parents or because i stopped working?And my parents are not rich,they are struggling to survive,so i keep wondering why he should just quit taking care of his pregnant wife.if i wasn't pregnant,i wouldn't mind but i am pregnant and almost due(our 1st baby).
Right now,am so frustrated that most times i cry myself to sleep,I've thought of ways to make things better for me,but no one would employ an almost due pregnant woman.
Right now,i have made up my mind to get a boyfriend for myself once i deliver my baby,because I've got to make ends meet,I've got my struggling parents to take care of,my siblings are still in school,and a baby on the way,i cant just fold my hands and watch us suffer.My parents are trying and they cant continue taking care of me(financially and otherwise) now that am married.


Buh seriously it is advisable Ƒ҉я̩̥̊ ladies to think twice before quiting her job, check out ur bank account,think of the negative things lyk if U̶̲̥̅̊ can do it alone wen the going gets tough. Everyth in lyf now is 50/50. Her story is pathetic.buh planning is necessary.
ReplyDeletemy advicd is dat,she should try focus her mind and trust in d lord.i can assure her everything is going 2 be fine.remember d bible said with God all tins are porsible.take dat step den u will give tanks 2 God almighty.
ReplyDeletePls don't just make d decision u just mention, go back 2 ur Bible & pray over it al wil b well is just a matter of tym.
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